You can see that someone with the same name and email has been active on many different blade, cymbal, music, and other forums going back years now and that the poster has a very unique writting/commenting style that is consistent across the years, forums, and disciplines being discussed. Going even further, you can find social media accounts tied to the same person and email as well. People will post way too much about their personal lives on the internet and with some google searching, you can dig up quite a bit on people without too much effort.
Combining this information, you can start to piece together a map of someone's hobbies, family, profession, and much more depending on what they choose to share. I don't want this to sound creepy, but that's the nature of things these days.
Of course Brian could look at the IP addresses of this account and others to see if there are any matches. Someone who willingly divulges full names, emails, and location is probably not using a VPN if I had to make an assumption. I wouldn't ask Brian to divulge that information anyways as that is now bordering on abusing admin privileges in my opinion. Everything else I found, was done in about 5 minutes and a few carefully crafted google searches.
Based on all of the above, I would say with fairly high confidence, that the gmail account is legit, the person is who they say they are, and that they have a sister who is a professor (hint hint, you can search all of this stuff too and confirm all of it). As they say, there is 0 privacy on the internet.
Sincerely,
Someone who does stuff like this a lot for a living