Without provenance there is no way to tell the precise age of the koshirae, but the organic nature of the materials causes them to become worn-down over time. Therefore a lot of the koshirae found on blades being sold in the shops, come from the 1800s. This is my belief, anyway. I have no empirical evidence to back this up. And with frequent handling, the silk wrapping of the hilt becomes grimy and loose and the threads start to fall apart. So rewrapping is common. I would assume your koshirae fits this pattern, and was probably made mid-1800s, and the hilt rewrapped maybe once or twice since then. And yes, it was almost certainly crafted for the blade (although it is possible an orphaned scabbard was found that coincidentally matched the size/shape of your sword, and the two were thus paired - but usually the scabbards are custom-made for the swords.)
Yes.
I also think the koshirae is a wonderful example of lacquer craftsmanship. Hard, if not impossible, to make a scabbard like this today. The dragonfly motif on the metal bits is nice. Incidentally, "dragonfly" in Japanese is kachi-mushi (勝虫), and the first character of that word means "victory". Dragonflies were therefore a favorite theme of samurai, due to the auspicious spelling.