Hi Paul,
many thanks for your comments - I think you hit the nail with the "first time buy". I went through this several times in different areas, sometimes I was lucky, sometimes not. But it was always an experience that you never find in books, no matter how many you've read. In my opinion, the internet forums changed this a bit, as you can interact with people and discuss in advance with experts - the only problem here is to know, what you actually want. But then again, many newcomers don't actually know what they want or they just thin they know :-)
So yes, I take all the previous posts (even if they sound not so positive) and appreciate that the authors spent the time writing their comments. I'm also aware, that my current Nihonto knowledge is very limited, but...
Thanks again!
Matus